TED英文演说-如何修补一颗破碎的心中英演讲稿.pdf

Howto fix a broken heart Guy Winch 2017 At some point in our lives, almost every one of us will have our heart broken. 几乎每个人，在人生中的某个时点，都会遇到心碎的状况。 My patient Kathy planned her wedding when she was in middle school. She would meet her future husband by age 27, get engaged a year later and get married a year after that. 我的病人凯西还在中学时就规划了她的婚礼。她遇到未来老公的时间会是在二十 七岁时，一年后他们会订婚，再一年后结婚。 But when Kathy turned 27, she didn’t find a husband. She found a lump in her breast. She went through many months of harsh chemo therapy and painful surgeries, and then just as she was ready to jump back into the dating world, she found a lump in her other breast and had to do it all over again. 但当凯西二十七岁时，她没有找到老公。她找到的，是胸部的肿块。她经历了很 多个月的辛苦化疗，以及痛苦的手术，接着，就在她准备要跳回来约会的世界时， 她在另一边的胸部发现了肿块，整个过程都得再重来一次。 Kathy recovered, though, and she was eager to resume her search for a husband as soon as her eyebrows grew back in. When you’re going on first dates in New York City, you need to be able to express a wide range of emotions. 不过，凯西恢复了，她很热切地想继续寻找她的老公，她打算等眉毛长回来就马 上行动。当你在纽约市去赴第一次约会，你得要能够表现出很多种情绪。 Soon afterwards, she met Rich and fell in love. The relationship was everything she hoped it would be. Six months later, after a lovely weekend in New England, Rich made reservations at their favorite romantic restaurant. Kathy knew he was going to propose, and she could barely contain her 第 1 页 excitement. 没多久之后，她遇见了雷奇，陷入热恋。这段感情完全是她所希望的那样子。六 个月之后，在新英格兰度过了一个美好的周末之后，雷奇订了他们最喜欢的浪漫 餐厅。凯西知道他要求婚了，她兴奋难耐。 But Rich did not propose to Kathy that night. He broke up with her. As deeply as he cared for Kathy -- and he did --he simply wasn’t in love. 但那晚，雷奇并没有向凯西求婚。他和她分手了。尽管他对凯西的关心很深── 他真的关心过──但他就是没有爱上她。 Kathy was shattered. Her heart was truly broken, a